Jerry DePew never wanted to be in the limelight. But when it came to getting plenty of work accomplished behind the scenes in the local and area tennis community, the Midlothian resident had few peers.
As president of the Richmond Tennis Patrons Association, and later the Virginia Tennis Association and the Middle Atlantic Tennis Association, DePew spent countless volunteer hours making sure everything was done the right way.
He was known as a quiet and humble man, but his passion for the sport knew no bounds.
“Jerry was the, quote-unquote, quintessential quiet man,” said Lou Einwick, a past president of what is now known as the Richmond Tennis Association and the tournament director of the long-running men’s indoor event in Richmond that ended in 1984.
“You really never knew about Jerry because he was very, very quiet but very, very good in whatever he undertook. Everybody had great respect for him.”
DePew, 88, died on Feb. 23, leaving behind a legacy in the local tennis community that will long be remembered on and off the courts.
“Two things about Jerry,” Einwick continued. “He never was out front, the person you were taking pictures of, but I don’t think anybody ever, ever, ever had a bad word to say about him.”
Einwick recalled that DePew was in charge of player transportation duties during the tennis tournament. DePew’s job for 48 years was as a location and design engineer for the Virginia Department of Transportation, so he had plenty of experience in that regard.
“His main contribution was in 1983 when we had to run the tournament at the University of Richmond and we had the tremendous parking problem,” said Einwick. “He set up a bus schedule, and I honestly don’t know where the buses ran from to the tournament but they ran from somewhere and back.
“That really became an issue when we had that great snowstorm on, I think, Thursday and Friday, of that week.”
Einwick also pointed out that DePew’s service as president of the VTA and MATA showed how well he got along with others.
“Anybody who rises through all the politics of those two organizations to be president deserves a lot of credit,” he said.
DePew served as president of the RTPA in 1976 and was president of the Virginia Tennis Association (1986) and Middle Atlantic Tennis Association (1987) in back-to-back years.
Growing up in Richmond, where he attended John Marshall High School, DePew enjoyed playing all sports, but particularly running track and sandlot football, according to one of his sons, John.
“He was really fast,” said John DePew. “Kids in the neighborhood, and from other neighborhoods, would come and challenge him to a race. He just loved sports. He started playing tennis maybe in his mid-20s. He took it up late.
“When we [John and his brother, Frank] started playing, he really got into [tennis]. It probably ended up being the sport he enjoyed the most.”
DePew enjoyed playing – and stayed on the courts until he was 80 – but what he got the most pleasure from was volunteering and helping out whenever and wherever he could in the local and area tennis community.
“That was probably a bigger part of him than playing,” said John DePew. “He was a weekend player and loved playing, but he was really involved with the tournaments and organizations.”
DePew was tournament director for a number of local and Middle Atlantic junior tournaments, including the Life of Virginia Junior Invitational, which included such future professional stars as Jimmy Arias, Andrea Jaeger and Tim Mayotte.
He also served as state ranking chairman for the VTA and was a delegate to the U.S. Tennis Association on several occasions.
Through it all, DePew always stayed in the background and was content with making certain everything ran correctly.
“He really was doing it because he enjoyed doing it and wanted to help,” said John DePew. “He wasn’t trying to do it for any political reason and anything like that.”
DePew was active in the local and area tennis realm for some 30 years, beginning when his sons began playing junior tennis in 1969. For his many contributions over the years, he was inducted into the Richmond Tennis Hall of Fame in 1997.
Whether you knew him personally or professionally, DePew was the kind of person that people admired for the way he performed his jobs. And he always seemed to know how to push the right buttons to get it done.
“I knew him personally, and I found him to be one of the most thorough and most professional people I ever knew,” said Fred Bruner, a past president of the RTA who was inducted into the Hall of Fame in 2013.
“Whenever he took on something, he did it to perfection. He was totally unselfish. His concern was the development of tennis around here. We were lucky to have him.
“He was certainly one of the reasons I got involved in the RTA. When I came back from [law] school, and he was with the highway department, it was very encouraging to see what he had done [in the community].
“He was sort of a role model. He was somebody, a dad, who had done all this, not just to benefit his own son but for everybody. He was just so involved in everything. From Richmond, to the state of Virginia and the Mid-Atlantic.
“He was so organized and was always just as fair as he could be. He was such a humble person in all of it, too. He didn’t bring any attention to himself. But those of us around him knew it wouldn’t have happened without Jerry.”
Getting things done in a quiet manner pretty much sums up the life of Jerry DePew. And the Richmond and area tennis communities are grateful that he chose them to lend his time and expertise in helping them for more than three decades.
Memorial contributions can be made to the Richmond Tennis Association, P.O. Box 17612, Richmond, Va., 23226.